Saturday, July 19, 2008

Ways and means needed for a true friendship of a relationship.

[1] To build a True Friendship. It will take Honesty, Trust, Loyalty, Strength, and most of all Respect. Once you have all these Added. Then you have one Solid Foundation for a Friendship.

[2] Then you build the Walls from your Love. Those kinds of Walls are hard to tear down. It can be build though a very firm understanding.

[3] Truly great friends are hard to find... difficult to leave and impossible to forget. You too will know this is a world proven fact and no one can deny this fact.

[4] We mostly hear there type of bullshit phrases from untrue friends. I dropped a Tear in the ocean last night, the day I find it, is the day, I will stop loving you.

[5] Many people will walk in and out of your life .but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

[6] Don’t repeat one thing too many times. The friend may think you are not honest person. For example: If I had a flower for every time you made me laugh or smile...I'd have a garden to walk through forever.

[7] Remember these wise words said by out great thinkers. Just friends have never seen you cry. A true friend has shoulders soggy from your tears. This mainly means to share ups and downs of both sides and not to keep things closed to your friend.

[8] Always be ready to care your friend as much as you can. Give love to your friend. The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen...or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. That is called caring love.

[9] It is very hard to find a true friend. But for sure it is not impossible. True friendship can be found in moments of silence.

[10] The Good will Always - Over Power the Evil. This is something most of us never think of. For example if your friend is in trouble or in a deep sadness give your friend support, strength, and look what is happening to your friend.

[11] If you love someone write their name in a circle not a heart. A heart can be broken but a circle goes on forever.

[12] My humble advice to those who read this will be if you want to play A Game.....Buy a Deck of Cards. From this you can play as the way you want to play. But stop playing with the feelings of human beings. If you cannot be straightforward say bye-bye and let go your way.

[13] Many of us don’t believe in this old philosophy. Make yourself a better person and know who you are - before you try to know someone else and expect them to know you. But many of us do think it is out of fashion.

[14] Never give an inch or a centimeter for gossip between you and your friend. There's always going to be people that hurt you. Who are jealous of your friendship with some one which they also want a friendship. - So what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

[15] Don't try so hard at being the Best. Your friend will always recognize who is the best. The best things come when you least expect them to. Always remember whatever happens, Happens for a reason. Many a time, all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

[16] Avoid and don’t listen to gossip. You can have any number of friends, but do make sure only a few will stand by you when you are in need of friends. That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

[17] We meet a lot of 2 faced friends. So be careful in choosing friends. Don’t be too fast in your acceptance but best way is to know your friend as much as you can. If not the result is bitter. When you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

[18] Remember this old saying. One should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

[19] Never try to climb to the top before you explore the lower parts. Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

[20] Never regret if someone hurts you. It is a real lesson for your future. When you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

[21] Many use to say a very wise thing. So keep it in mind. They say it takes a minute to find a Special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to LOVE them, but then an entire life to forget them.

[22] When you throw a small stone into the water the ripples will be small. There mostly will not be a splash. But if you throw a large stone the ripples will be big and it will go on for a long time. When you are Missing something... a part of your Soul.....Never to be felt again...And what is left...Is a River Of Tears.

[23] Make it a dream whatever you did not see in real. Never waste your precious time on imaginations and thinking of the dreams. A Dream Is A Wish Of The Heart.

[24] If you have found a best friend my advice is very strange. If it is not as I tell you then make sure that is not a best friend. Two Best Friends are like a pair of hands...One Always looking after the other.

[25] Experience this if you are unaware of this. When Jealousy resides. Evil will always Follow...Leave it behind and Love will embrace.

[26] If you love someone or something, if it needs to be let go of, just let it go. Everything happens for a reason and if it comes back to you, that means it found its way back and it was meant to be. If you're meant to be together, you will be. If not, and it doesn't come back to you, that's how things are supposed to be. Everything happens for a reason because without all the mistakes or things we have given up, our lives wouldn't be like they are today and we wouldn't have grown from our experiences. They say if you Love something let it GO if it comes back to You, it's yours, if it doesn’t. it wasn't meant to be.

[27] How LOVE can turn into HATE within seconds - and spoil almost an entire incarnation. As a result of WRONG, and partial perception of ALL facts, and the FULL truth of an entire situation. Protecting You and Your Heart For All Eternity With The Chance Of Losing My Own Life.

[28] No Man or Woman is Worth Your Tears, and the one who is, won't make you Cry. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can‘t have them. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful. Don‘t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

[29] Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

[30] Don't waste your time on a man or woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you. You could be in love with a married person. Add your own possibilities. I think that this means that the person who is physically with you may not be emotionally with you. There is nothing worse than when you love someone and they pull away from you. This happens when one of a couple isn't as committed as the other and eventually wants to end their marriage. They cut off their emotions to make it easy for them, and it is terribly painful to you.

[31] To the world you may be one Person, but to one person you maybe the World. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. Anonymous

[32] Be true to love, and love will be true to you. I think love is never tired of waiting; love is kind; love has no envy; love has no high opinion of itself, love has no pride; love's ways are ever fair, it takes no thought for itself; it is not quickly made angry, it keeps no accounts of wrong; it takes no pleasure in wrongdoing, but has joy in what is true; love has the power of undergoing all things, having faith in all things, hoping all things.

[33] People don’t need anyone to take advantage of their weaknesses or their strengths; they need someone who will appreciate them for everything that they are. Self-esteem has everything to do with how you feel about praise. Low self-esteem is characterized by an intense desire to be liked, coupled with feelings, deep down inside, that one is inadequate and not worth liking. People with low self-esteem may desperately yearn for praise, but when it comes, they feel uncomfortable with it, like an imposter. Their self-criticism overrides their ability to recognize their strengths and qualities and appreciate their talents and contributions.

[34] Don't let False Love fool you, but don't let Real Love pass you by. Love changes you. The way you think, the way you act, the way you decide. Sometimes you even go against your principles and beliefs in life. Loving doesn’t always mean you’ll be happy. Sometimes, all it provides you is pain and misery. Yet you are blinded by strong emotions that you fail to see reality. Sometimes, letting go is the only answer and it hurts like hell. But you will soon realize that it is better if the person you love would be happy to someone else

[35] Don't use your eyes to look for love for it's your heart that knows it. Love differs from heart to heart; love can be good and can be bad. To love and be loved is the perfect ingredients to happiness but to love and not be loved will be darkness in your soul. Being in love is like a drop of water after years of draught, it eases your soul’s agonies of life. Being in love is a feeling not all humans will experience. So if you have it cherishes.

[36] Our heart is like an unfinished puzzle that is why we search for the perfect One to complete it. Love purely and be happy it came in your way. If it hurts you then be glad because you've been touched by Love. The easy part of life is finding someone to love. The hard part is finding someone to love you back. Somewhere there's a place, holding something, concealing someone, holding your fate, but only waiting for the time. There is one moment in your life when you are with someone and you feel like the world has stopped and your life seems so perfect, make sure you never lose that person.

[37] You will love many times...but only Once you will fall in Love I don't think you find love - it finds you. And I believe that you can have many different and beautiful loves in a lifetime. Is there only one soul mate? I doubt it - because the soul is in constant flux and tomorrow may bring a new love who "fits you" in a different, yet equally magical way.

[38] May you fly on the wings of Eagles, and walk with the Courage of the Wolf.

[39] For each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow. Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity. Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain.

[40] True Friends are like Diamonds. *Beautiful & Rare*.False Friends are like autumn leaves Found Everywhere. A six letter word, yet it means a lot to us. Friends are special gifts from God to us. We love to be with our "gang"... we love the company of one another. But one important subject to touch on is the importance of being a true friend and also having true friends in your midst. It is very difficult to find real, true friends who will stand up for you and protect you. We ought to choose long life friends. Friends who will be there when you need them. But remember we need to choose friends that are God fearing...one who leads you the right path. True friends too are those that correct you, reprimand you, and show you the correct way. They are also those that build you up when you are down, pray for you and love you!! Lastly, always remember to be a true friend!! For a true friend loves at all times!

[41] So hold me when I'm here. Right me when I'm wrong. Hold me when I'm scared and Love me when I'm Gone. --- There's another world inside of me that you may never see. There’s a secret in this life that I can't hide. Somewhere in this darkness there's a life that I can't find. Maybe it's too far away or maybe I'm just blind, maybe I'm just blind. So hold me when I'm here right me when I'm wrong. Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone. Everything I am and everything in me. Wants to be the one you wanted me to be. I'll never let you down even if I could. I'd give up everything if only for your good.

[42] Love knows no boundaries and cannot be confined. It transcends time and space. Love is the greatest power on earth and in heaven.

[43] A good friend expects nothing but gets it all,,,, and cares for you unconditionally. What do you expect from your friends that classifies them a friend? Good listener, there for you? What? Keeps your secrets? And then what makes a horrible friend, one you never want to talk to or be around. A good friend is someone you can talk to and be yourself around. Somebody who won't judge you. You can express yourself around them. You feel safe. However, a horrible friend is someone who is constantly backstabbing you or putting you down.

[44] Why don’t You Get A Job as a CARPENTER,,, Build Yourself a Fence.... & GET!! OVER!! It.

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